I know. If you read another inch of newsprint dissecting the transgender life
of Bruce Jenner, you will pack up and move to Canada! It’s too much, right, the
air-brushed photos of a former Olympic athlete, posing in a white satin
one-piece bathing suit, showing off cleavage and painted fingernails?
The cover of Vanity Fair magazine with Bruce, now Caitlyn, Jenner, smiling,
sporting a come hither haircut and a small waistline, is all vanity and man-made
glamour, words that continue to haunt the image of women.
Caitlyn Jenner may offer new hope for young lives struggling with gender
issues, but a swimsuit pinup magazine cover amps up the pressure. No matter,
male or female at birth, once a member of the fairer sex, an admiring eye tends
to follow those who are, well, fairer!
In a recent article by a writer of novels whose photograph had been barely
noticeable on her book’s cover, she bemoans the exposure of body and soul to the
public as she chats up her novel on TV and at book stores around the
country.
Suddenly, each phone aimed in her direction includes a camera and every gray
hair on her head is a flaw. She writes she is considering Botox injections to
get rid of frown lines. At the same time she is preaching inner beauty to her
daughters and reminding them who they are matters more than how they look, she
is pondering Spanx as under-armor to smooth out a waistline with more than an
inch to pinch!
Though in our most grown-up moments, we know faithfulness and talent trump
toned and tanned Victoria’s Secret beauties with legs up to yonder, we are drawn
to how women look. This year, for the first time, designers from the fashion
world offered evening gowns to actors presenting Tony Awards.
Gifted performances on the Broadway stage are what count, but, if a
television audience is to tune in and be attentive, viewers want to be surprised
by sequins and satin, the drama as lace trails a form-fitting dress.
So, we are of two minds. We enjoy beauty, women as “eye candy,” but,
hopefully, we also want to see them applauded for their unique gifts, for
leadership and research, for empathy and brain power. The hang up is we have an
urge to step back when we see them as too powerful.
Bryce Covert, who is the economic policy editor at ThinkProgress, filled an
opinion column with views and statistics on the frustrating role of women who do
get a chance at CEO roles in companies today, though, too often, only when they
are pushed off “the glass cliff,” expected to magically cure corporate ills in a
time of turmoil.
He reminds us Congress is less than 20 percent female and it’s been nearly a
century since the first woman was elected to the House of Representatives.
Should we agree it is more tempting to peg a woman, sure of her convictions, as
“a politician,” (read: Sen. Elizabeth Warren), than it is to pin that put-down
tag on a man?
Is there the sure knowledge the path for women leading to the highest office
in the land will be easier this time? Hillary Clinton and Carly Fiorina, both
candidates for president, are running as part of a procession of others who
marched, protested and finally bent history in their direction.
Caitlyn Jenner may have a reality show, be paid a lot of money, pose for
magazine covers and grant interviews, but to make a difference in today’s world
as a woman, she’ll need more than plastic surgery and bikini waxes.
A woman needs courage to break the mold, finding her inner and true voice.
But, at some point in her life, God willing, there will be that moment of truth,
when, even with cheekbones that could cut glass, she looks across a table at a
husband, partner or king of the workplace and says: “Take me seriously. I am
more than a pretty face.”
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